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I thought i could help but i feel like ive failed him =[?

March 15th, 2010 by , under nnmj.com.

  • well my friend has this x and i started talking to him because he has a messed up life and i really wanted to get him to get his act together. anyway id never met him until tuesday and we went to the cinemas and i dont know why but everything got out of hand. it wasnt suppost to be a date but we ended up making out.

    not only do i feel stupid because hes my friends x (she has a bf now and she always watches his moves and mine) but i feel like the whole point of us meeting up was just a waste of time. to me it was a fling but my friend told me he said i was special on msn and all this. ive just messed up his life more!

    i got him off drugs i got him thinking positive and just now i was on msn talking to him and he says hell probably just end up like a messed up teen and commit suicide. i was so mad at him i told him that too and he told me hes lost everything etc. he also said he only has one friend and apparently im not it so said ok im going and as i was loggin he said ive only met u once i just said "whatever" and logged

    this is sucha a darn mess!! he is moving down to melbourne also tomorrow. i sort of feel slightly relieved by sort of not, help! please =[


  • you really should write his parents a letter explaining that you think he needs a therapist or guidance of some sort.

    also, don't let this get you down. when my best friend committed suicide i blamed myself for years, and almost ended up like him. people like this need guidance and help from someone who is licensed to take care of them.

    as another cautionary step, let him know that even though you two can only be friends . . . you will ALWAYS be there for him whenever he needs someone to talk too. you could even talk to your school counselors and have them contact his new school's (if he is going to a new school) counselors so they can help him out too.

    i hope this helped =]


  • hes being dumb.
    u tried to help
    but he just threw it bak in your face

    believe me nothing can compare
    to the ****
    thats happened to me lately

    so really whats sooo wrong wit his life?
    he got himself into drugs
    u shouldnt feel guilty
    its his own fault.
    so yeah
    dont worry he sounds like a ****


  • I think you are worrying about it too much! Like he said you met him once....nothing to worry this much about! It's something in the past...move on and get on with life. And DON"T EVER do that to your friend again! That is just messed up and if you were a true friend, NONE of that would have happened! You need to learn to say NO!


  • that was kinda hard to follow... but i think i understand
    maybe just talk to him more and try to keep him off of drugs and all that nonsense...


    sorry its not that great
    i hope i helped!

    :] -good luck!!!


  • hmm. bummer. you failed him.


  • ........i dont get what you need


  • lol classic romance-novel type scenario. if you want to do the logical thing, get your mind off him right away because he's bad for you.


  • You can't save people. No one. Never, not ever. People can only save themselves. It is impossible to have a good relationship with someone who is this dysfunctional.

    Stop pouring your energy down this black hole. Leave him behind and find a nice guy who is stable, happy, and healthy. You're wasting time with this guy.


  • well he cleaned up a little so maybe you could give him a chance
    and he is right he just met you so your not really his friend
    but hes just saying that to create some drama
    having a fight gives him a reason to talk to you or someone
    makes him fell like there is a chance you guys could work it out and be lovers
    i know its hard to give someone a chance when there leaving
    but give him a kiss goodbye and tell him "I know you said were not friends but i wish we were"


  • Don't worry, it's not your fault at all. Try not to be mad at him though, because you may not really be able to feel what he's been through. It appears that he just wants to be needed, and you reached out to him and made him feel good. I think he hoped you could be more than you planned on being for him, and the fact that he jumped in too far and had everything taken away because of his own actions probably hurt him a lot. Call him and really talk to him. MSN is great, but it can be easy to say things you don't mean. Tell him you want him to be happy and for his life to be okay, and that you just want to be his friend to help him through this. The fact he's moving may make things more complicated, but try to settle things before he's gone! Good luck :(


  • you can't change what he does but you can change what he thinks. if hes serious about comitting suicide, you haven't failed him. it's not your fault. it's his bad. so just try to confirm the relationship, dont go too far, keep things in hand and get him happy again. just do your best and things'll work out fine.


  • get a counsler for him


  • Uh are you ok? What are you talking about?







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