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Hey can you please help me out with this situation..Guys mainly please?

March 14th, 2010 by , under nnmj.com.

  • My boyfriend and I have been together for 20 months and I know he loves me. There is a chick who is in our circle in a open relationship with her boyfriend who is my boyfriends mate.
    She is a tart who is very up herself and deliberately flirts, bends over in front of them and crap like that with all the guys but I think she is attractive and has a good figure.
    I asked my boyfriend what is it that guys may like about her his initial answer was i dont know and he then said if anything she may have a good figure and nice *** but a head like a horse, he apparently noticed her *** because she bent over in front of him one day.
    When a guy notices a girl that doesnt mean he wants her does it, just because she may have a good figure and ***?
    He has told me he doesnt fancy her but I just need males opinions on this please?
    To add he is affectionate towards me around her, its not like he doesnt go near me, im just worried if your partner notices something on another girl does it mean they may want her or does this sound all normal and im safe?
    If he is affectionate towards me when she is there he isnt interested in her right?



  • So you're asking him to not even notice that other women exist? I think that's unrealistic.

    Getting angry at him would tell him that a) he has to lie to you about things even when you ask him to be honest, and b) you expect him to be unrealistically ignorant of other women. Most men would also see it as controlling, insecure, and immature, no matter how well-intentioned you are (and I do think that you are well-intentioned). They might phrase it as "locking his b**ls away", and it would make the average man extremely uncomfortable and defensive.


  • al your life there will be women like that. You have to know if you can trust your man or not. If you are asking this question you don't know him that well.


  • Not a guy, and you most likely will not get the answer you are looking for from a guy. You have to know you can trust him or you should leave him. There are always going to be women like that. In the end guys don't respect them.

    You have pointed out that she is pretty and has a nice figure that doesn't seem to be pulling him away from you. Don't agonize over it, that will hurt your relationship.


  • I'm not a guy, but just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you're blind.

    I notice cute guys, and I'm sure my fiance notices girls as well..

    But there's a difference between looking and doing, you know?

    I love my fiance to death, and would NEVER cheat on him. That doesn't mean I don't find other guys to be cute/attractive.

    Attractive people are always going to be around, the point of being in a mature relationship is being so madly in love with someone that yes, you see cute people and recognize the fact that they're good looking.. but it doesn't really matter.

    I'm sure your boyfriend adores you :)


  • Since you asked for a GUYS opinion I will tell you. He may look but if he loves you enough to marry you that is all he will do. You sound a
    little unsure , what ever you do don't make more out of this than it is.
    If you two are going to be married it takes trust and a lot of work. You will have to have a lot of give and take on both sides. I think the reason there are so many divorces today is that people are too lazy or are unwilling to work at a marriage.Good Luck to you both.







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